Post by: Anisha Joshi
My Dear Future Boyfriend,
I have seen my share of immature first loves and the painful heartbreaks that follow. When I look back now, I feel that I have grown up. I know my priorities in life. I know myself and I am deeply, madly, and passionately in love with myself.
At the moment I don’t want a boyfriend. I don’t want to flaunt among my friends because I already have an awesome life.
But one day in my future I will need someone. Someone who can complete and compliment me. Someone who trusts me. Someone who understands me. Someone who is as strong as the wind to fight for me. Someone who is as soft as the breeze to calm me. Someone who is just there beside me, with unspoken words, with the unsaid promise to have the best talks in silence. Someone who shares my grievances.
Will you be the one who stays?
I want someone who can forgive me for every fight. Someone who needs me in his life. Someone who can make me run on that road which never ends, which is built out of trust and patience, which has only love and longing to be the best for the best.
I want someone who is daring enough to steal the princess from her own self. Someone who looks beyond the figure and physical appearances and sees my true inner core. Someone who looks me in the eyes and connects with my soul.
Someone who allows me to be stupid and childish. Someone who strengthens me daily before I go to work. Someone who is my friend to support and understand me with my ways. Someone with whom I am free to be my own self.
Together we will define love.
I want someone who can define love in my life. Love – as pure as the snow, as pious as the divine, as strong as the mountains, as beautiful as the stars twinkling above.
I know if he exists, I will meet him at the perfect time and in the perfect way. And I will change into my true self through him and for him. I will be changed. But what I love most is the irony that he won’t care if I change or stay the same, because he will love me no matter what.
I am happy with my life and with each passing day. I am learning new ways to love myself. I am enjoying being single because it allows me to dream of you while pursuing my own dreams.
I wish the same accelerates with your entry into my life.
Your Future Girlfriend