Post by: ALEX MATLOCK
We all know that being boring doesn’t get you laid, but what if there were something you could do, something that would make you more interesting to women? It’s a known fact that being interesting is synonymous with being attractive. Sure, it has its limits, but the general idea is 100% true.
Because being interesting is absolutely key when it comes to getting laid, today I’m going to show you some simple, yet very effective, ways to become more interesting to women.
Explore Everything Like Columbus.
This doesn’t apply just to traveling, although, if you travel a lot, you’ll have a lot to talk about. The more you explore any given subject, the more you’ll know and be able to share with others.
As long as your subject isn’t boring people to death, this method is a fantastic way to become more interesting. It will also allow you to relate to larger amounts of people, since you have knowledge on a variety of topics — something that would also make you seem intelligent, whether you consider yourself to be or not.
Talk About What You Know or Have Experienced.
It doesn’t matter how much you know or have experienced if you never talk about it. Make it a point to open up whenever you find yourself in a social situation. Many people find it hard to talk in social scenarios involving large amounts of people, but if you do it, you’ll take the pressure off of everyone else and they’ll all be eating out of your hand.
Do Something New Every Week.
Although this might seem a bit difficult, don’t think of it as going bungee jumping this week and skydiving next. Experiencing new things can include anything from watching an Asian film to learning to knit. As long as you’re exploring new activities or places, you’ll continue learning. The more experiences you have, the easier it will be to talk about them.
Stick To What You Like.
Don’t give your two cents on what other people think. If you like business, and marketing interests you, talk about that. Be your own man and know that if you talk about what you know with an intelligent point of view, people will listen.
You can have college dropouts eating your every word if you’re expressing your thoughts with passion and common sense.
You Don’t Always Have To Talk.
As you probably know already, the best way to relate to women is to listen closely and ask interesting questions. Try not to be the one that’s always talking. Make a point to listen to others; you might actually learn something new.
Improve At What You’re Good At.
There are some things that you’re naturally good at and enjoy doing (no, it’s not playing Xbox). If you focus on those things as much as you can, you’ll eventually become your social circle’s expert on the issue.
Being the most knowledgeable on any particular issue means people will come at you for advice. Once they do, you’ll have respect and recognition from others, raising your social status like a boss.
Speak More Than One Language.
It’s a sad fact that most native English speakers don’t know any other foreign languages.
Personally, I’m fluent in three languages and know enough from others to make people that don’t know the language think I’m fluent. This works fantastically well when trying to showcase my abilities in social situations or in one-on-one situations with women.
If one particular girl tells me she visited Barcelona this summer, I can say “Ah señorita, habla español?” She’ll say, “No, do you?” and I’ll say, “Sí, hablo un poco de español. Soy un hombre de negocios, un hombre mui fuerte.” Although that doesn’t mean anything special, I bet you she’ll be stunned about my abilities. Not only that, but I was able to relate to her (and her travels) in a way that many English speaking people aren’t. And no, I’m not fluent in Spanish, either.
Lead! Don’t Follow.
This is an obvious one, but it’s absolutely paramount. Women are attracted to men that LEAD, not to the ones that follow; it’s in their DNA. Be the guy that others want to follow, be strong about your opinions, don’t give in easily and don’t let anyone run you over. It will make you more interesting. It will make people ask the question, “But why? Why do you have different views? Why do you want it to be like that?”
And yet again, you’ll have people listening to what you have to say.
When you’re bold and fearless, you notice changes starting to happen. Women will be attracted to you, guys will respect you, and new opportunities will continuously arise.
Being shy and uncomfortable is somewhat natural to most guys; being fearless and bold is not. If you want to be more interesting, you need to step outside your comfort zone and go for what you want. It’s the only way you’re ever going to get there.
If You’ve Learned It, Use It!
As already discussed, learning something new is absolutely key, but it’s nothing when compared to using what you’ve learned.
Take this article for example. So you now know that learning another language is a phenomenal skill, as you’ve read it here. So, what will you do? Will you actually put in a little effort towards learning a new language, or will you just disregard that piece of advice like you do with everything else and continue with your mundane life as always?
It’s up to you. If you want change, things will change when you decide to work for that change. Now you know what it takes to be more interesting; it’s up to you to make the decision to change.